In Naomi Wolfís ìThe Beauty Mythî she describes a psychological and political
debasement of women based on the societyís concept of beauty. But is this
accurate? Are women as helpless victims as she depicts them and is the
concept of beauty unique to the post feminist era?
Wolf explains that the affluent and educated women of the first world are
plagued by a near obsessive concern with beauty but this is the result
of society trying to limit their freedom rather than a problem of their
own neuroses. This begs the question, why is it the affluent that are concerned
with this?What about women from poorer, less educated backgrounds? After
all, if something is being dictated by society why does the ability to
actually purchase beautifying products determine the extent to who
is affected by it? Oppression, social expectations and concepts of attractive
things donít know luxury. And something that is truly the fault of a culture
affects our subconscious on a very visceral level. Why then does Wolf make
the correlation between the well to do and this obsession? And where are
we to sympathize, when she speaks of wealthy women who are torn apart about
the fact that they donít fit a size six, especially when even in first
world countries, there is a disturbingly high number of women who
worry themselves senseless over how to feed their own children?
Wolf says, in The Beauty Myth ìThe More legal and material hindrances
women have broken through, the more strictly and heavily cruel images
of female beauty have come to weigh heavily upon us.î what are these
cruel images of which she speaks? Is it the image of the slender woman?
The expensive clothes and hairstyles on the American Express commercials?
The constantly changing hairstyles of fashion magazines? Are these even
images of beauty, in the way that beauty has always been sought to be captured
by artists, or is she just confusing it with fad? Follow the fashion magazines:
one year a waif like body is all the rage and the next, itís curvy and
bodacious. But these are mere fads. Can we really be told it is our responsibility
to sympathize with the complexes of certain insecure individuals for not
keeping up with these? I have no more sympathy for a woman who revolves
her life around these than for someone in credit card debt because they
have to have the latest, most expensive clothing styles or the tech wanna
be who foolishly buys every piece of technical equipment regardless of
real need or practicality because the Gateway 2000 commercial tells them
to. Slavery to a fad is the jurisdiction of adolescents. Adult women, especially
those who have had a wealth of opportunities and advantages in society,
should not pretend itís anything more than that.
Wolf saysî During the past decade, women breached the power structure;
meanwhile, eating disorders rose exponentiallyî. However, eating disorders
are called ìdisordersî for a reason. They are not a normal product of society,
nor is there any logical argument to say that they are the result of some
intentional attempt to keep women down. Anorexia and bulimia are
psychological disorders, hence why it is listed in the DSM4, which
is the standard guidebook for psychological disorders. Furthermore it is
far from a womanís disease. Almost four out of every five deaths from anorexia
nervosa are people over the age of forty five. If, as Wolf argues, the
beauty myth is designed to make women feel they must duplicate the image
of the model, wouldnít this be more prevalent among women model aged? For
that matter, 25 % of the victims are male. This calls to question whether
this beauty myth for women is really a cause of eating disorders at all
or if thereís actually a much deeper psychological cause.
Wolf picks a conveniently abstract point for her argument. How society
makes us feel
But
her weakness comes in how she relates it and her argument that this is
an intentional way for men to impair the feminist movement. She actually
saysîMore women have more money and power and scope than legal recognition
than we have ever had before; but in terms of how we feel about ourselves
physically, we may actually be worse off than our unliberated grandmothers.î
This is a comment that belies the luxury of Wolfís existence. She has never
had to worry about money, or she wouldnít be so quick to shrug off the
value of womenís financial independence and all the doors open to her in
the career world. She also has most likely never been in an abusive relationship,
or she would not be so quick to shrug off such changes such as womensí
ability to file for divorce. There have been a whole wealth of advances
that Wolfís grandmother did not have yet she so flippantly dismisses
them because of what can only be vanity.
While one can say that the image of women in the mass media makes them
feel a pressure to strive for that, they cannot realistically depict it(as
Wolf does) as an overt form of oppression. The problem with this,
is what about the women who really aren't bothered by this? It operates
on a premise that it is too subtle and insidious to be backed up with facts.
If you
happen to be female and donít particularly feel that you have to look like
the cast of Melrose Place, or if you happen to look that way out of choice,
you are simply unaware of the ìtruthî of this oppression. But arenít these
simply cult tactics? Demonizing one group(men) while sainting another(women),
claiming an absolute truth that is far too subtle to be proven?
Wolf , in trying to relate ideas of beauty to an attempt to limit the feminist
movement, makes a very large assumption. She assumes that women and women
only are the victims of image and gender roles. However, is it really so
black and white? Recently, Fox ran a program calledî Who Wants to Marry
a Billionaire?î, where young women lined up to be chosen by a man they
would not even lay eyes on until after the competition. This was a new
low for society. However, as much pressure as there was on these young
women to fulfill some idea of perfection they were equally guilty.
After all, they blatantly did not care who this man was. All they cared
about was that he was a rich old guy that they would most likely outlive.
Do you think this has no psychological effect on men? Do you think there
is no impact on men that they cannot profess a greater interest in drama
than football without severe mockery and perhaps even physical assaults
on the part of their peers? Can anyone truly be said to win in this situation?
Women are judged by their physical appearance. This is true. Men are judged
by their machismo, their aggressiveness and their annual salary. What woman
if given a choice between a man who has a respectable job and takes her
to swank restaurants and a man who is unemployed or underemployed and lives
off of Budweiser and Beef jerky would choose the latter? The real
problem is that society as a whole has grown more superficial and materialistic.
Wolf wrote her essay in the early 90s. This was written at the start of
the technological revolution . Society was becoming more concerned with
making as much money as possible and this has only increased over time.
Could the answer be as simple as mere capitalism? Expensive makeup and
plastic surgery and fancy diets became more widely promoted not as a reaction
to women gaining power but because families were becoming smaller and the
annual income higher and people simply had more money to burn?
Letís allow Wolf in her point that women are constrained by ideals of femininity.
there is only so much you can blame on society and the media. Doesnít the
ultimate responsibility lie in your ability to have faith in yourself in
spite of opposition? Does the mere fact that thereís a generalized expectation
to do these things rest entirely on societyís shoulders or is there some
individual responsibility to believe in oneself? Where does she provide
proof that this is not just a rich womanís neuroses? That itís not simply
the jurisdiction of women who have too much time on their hands? That it
isn't just a convenient excuse to not grow up?
Wolf saysîThis isnít a conspiracy theory. It doesnít have to be.î
Isnít it? She says that thereís a group of people attempting to keep down
or oppress another group of people. But there is no actual proof that connects
the situation with the specific source. What is a conspiracy theory
but a list of allegations that canít be defended? And what is a conspiracy
but various people who are plotting against a specific individual or group?
No, Iím afraid this is very much a conspiracy theory no different than
theories about government proof of space aliens or who was behind the Kennedy
assassination.
Wolf goes on to bemoan the way feminists are perceived.îThe caricature
of the Ugly Feminist was resurrected to dog the steps of the womenís movement.î
If that is true then, she is at the heart of such splintering and repression.
By blaming society for womenís standard of beauty she automatically alienates
those who might prefer to look that way. By contrasting between how ìnormalî
women look and how women who just might happen to fit a certain image of
attractiveness look, she automatically alienates a big fraction of the
population: women who actually enjoy buying makeup, not because they feel
they have to but because they simply like it, or women who look in the
manner she says is ìoppressiveî or women who simply really could care less
about whoís on the cover of Vogue and donít feel particularly held back
by it. Why are there so few women embracing the feminist movement? Could
it be that sheís right and the heavy pressure of physical beauty has driven
women to such an intense neurosis that they can only think about looking
pretty and perfect? Or could it simply be that women today really canít
relate to her arguments?
Wolf closes the essay by sayingîa generation ago, women turned their backs
on the consumer heaven of the isolated multi-applianced home;but where
women are trapped today there is no door to slamî No door to slam? What
about opening the door of individual thought, where simply because one
feels pressure to look a certain way they donít succumb to it, hook line
and sinker? That maybe we women are not all helpless to how the magazines
and television and New York models appear? That just because it isnít easy
to question values doesnít make it impossible? That every group of people
who have questioned the status quo must first stand up by example, and
gone more on their convictions than the mores of the time?
Wolfís arguments are flimsy at best. Much of her defense is simple rhetoric
with little ability to state in a manner that convinces anyone other than
those who already agree with her.